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  • While you are planning…

    While you are planning…

    This past month has been nothing short of heartache for thousands of Angelenos. I am convinced that everyone knows someone who was directly affected by the loss of their homes and lives. It has been a horrific time of grief for so many. Someone said we must stop saying it’s only “things” they lost because…

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  • Brokenness walked into my house…

    This summer, a few things occurred that stopped me dead in my tracks and forced me to face the reality that lives all around us. Her name is Sarah*. A phone call from our son asking if a friend could sleepover.  By sheer instinct, I knew the omission of the pronoun led me to the…

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  • Take off the mask…

    Take off the mask…

    Depression: “feelings of severe despondency and dejection.” I was depressed, and I didn’t even know it. I never liked the word “depressed.” I said I was at peace, but I was actually numb – The hurt was so grave I didn’t know what else to do but to mask it with what I called peace,…

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  • Complicit…Are you?

    Complicit…Are you?

    Complicity the state of being an accomplice; partnership or involvement in wrongdoing: complicity in a crime. This blog became bigger than me than my opinions, experiences or conversations.  I was going through a personal experience realizing that I would be complicit in the neglect of someone I love if I did not speak up. Hence, this…

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  • He’s not broken…

    He’s not broken…

    This week I struggled… You see the senseless tragedy of Wednesday, February 14, 2018, known as Valentine’s Day and the celebration of Ash Wednesday for Catholics and Christians around the world, is now a date where countless of families will remember the loss of their child, their loved one. The irony of both, Valentine’s Day, a…

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  • Mrs. Dash got it right….about race!​

    I don’t have a law degree, nor am I a political pundit (though some of my friends say I am), but what I am is a human being with a heart…and my heart is broken. The events that occurred this weekend prompted another teachable moment for our family.  In the past year or so I…

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